Wednesday, September 7, 2011

mommy's dilemma


i'm confused,in dilemma, in order to expand my career,i've to sacrifice my quality time..but if i would like to keep that quality time,i've to bear the pain, to stay with the annoying people,to be a dumb and look so dumb, nothing nodding my head all the time....haishh...

but...if i choose to be on my dream path, i've to be strong and tough,i've to sacrifice my time with the boys,i've to stay awake, and be energetic to finish up my task as a mother,a wife, and a career woman......

these eyes are tired..sore and red...i need a deep rest,thank you.......

1 comment:

  1. My dear unknown friend,

    I just want to tell you that your dilemma is the main question for million of women on the globe, in my country in East Europe too. I believe that everyone of us has her own mission of life and can be happy only when lives in harmony with this mission.

    The second thing is that the world is too complicated and we live with too much "have to" things in our heads, but actually we don't need and don't want the most of them. One part of the wisdom is to decide to live only for the few really important things in our life.

    The third and last, we hurry up too much, as though the life will end tomorrow morning and we have to be completed professionals, mothers, spouses, friends and who knows what else until that last hour.

    I tell you my choice. I felt it in my heart. I know that the child has only few years to be young, to be little, to be a baby. I also know that for the child the most important thing in first years are the parents, especially the mother, not the money which the parents earn. I want to be with my kids in the beginning of their lives. They will grow up very fast. They'll have their own interests and paths later and no need of me or very rare. Then I will work, what else can I do?

    I wish you to find the best decision for you and to be happy and healthy with your loved ones.

    Regards! Kate :)

    ReplyDelete

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

mommy's dilemma

Posted by Mashy a.k.a Mummyrayyan at 7:27 AM

i'm confused,in dilemma, in order to expand my career,i've to sacrifice my quality time..but if i would like to keep that quality time,i've to bear the pain, to stay with the annoying people,to be a dumb and look so dumb, nothing nodding my head all the time....haishh...

but...if i choose to be on my dream path, i've to be strong and tough,i've to sacrifice my time with the boys,i've to stay awake, and be energetic to finish up my task as a mother,a wife, and a career woman......

these eyes are tired..sore and red...i need a deep rest,thank you.......

1 comments on "mommy's dilemma"

Екатерина Стайкова on September 13, 2011 at 3:34 AM said...

My dear unknown friend,

I just want to tell you that your dilemma is the main question for million of women on the globe, in my country in East Europe too. I believe that everyone of us has her own mission of life and can be happy only when lives in harmony with this mission.

The second thing is that the world is too complicated and we live with too much "have to" things in our heads, but actually we don't need and don't want the most of them. One part of the wisdom is to decide to live only for the few really important things in our life.

The third and last, we hurry up too much, as though the life will end tomorrow morning and we have to be completed professionals, mothers, spouses, friends and who knows what else until that last hour.

I tell you my choice. I felt it in my heart. I know that the child has only few years to be young, to be little, to be a baby. I also know that for the child the most important thing in first years are the parents, especially the mother, not the money which the parents earn. I want to be with my kids in the beginning of their lives. They will grow up very fast. They'll have their own interests and paths later and no need of me or very rare. Then I will work, what else can I do?

I wish you to find the best decision for you and to be happy and healthy with your loved ones.

Regards! Kate :)

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